In the curious ways of God’s providence, this is the second
time we’ve encountered two major crises running parallel in the world around us
and inside our own home.
In 2001 my husband had a major cancer surgery just few short
weeks after we became parents for the first time which took place just few
short weeks before 9/11. The world on the outside and the world on the inside were crumbling and mingling together as we watched the news and leaned into the
stories of survivors, first respondents and families who lost their loved
ones. Even though we were not in New
York nor did we know personally any of the victims, somehow, but the virtue of our
shared vulnerability, by the stabbing pangs of suffering, we connected with the
grieving.
We grasped for words. We let our tears roll. We gasped for courage
in the face of surreal. We were one with complete strangers by the common
thread of frailty of life.
The waves of heartbreak and pain of those days – the sheer
volume of lives affected and the depth and breadth of loss – framed our own
little journey of pain and fear.
It somehow put our personal journey in the larger context.
In some sense it amplified it. We thought we already had our hands full, in
fact, more than we could handle and then we were swept by this tidal wave of
story after story after story of heart-wrenching accounts of grief and death.
In another sense, their grief somehow diminished our own.
We were not the only people enduring suffering.
Fast-forward fifteen years to Orlando, Florida. What many
consider the Happiest Place on Earth.
Our City Beautiful. This time it was my turn to be recovering from the surgery
when the news hit of the deadly shooting in the gay night club Pulse.
Forty-nine young lives cut short in the largest mass
shooting in the U.S. history, in our own back yard!
As the entire city reeled from the initial shock, we were
again side swept by our own personal journey of reckoning with the brevity of
life and uncertainty of the future. And once again as we’ve leaned
into the heartbreak, pain and courage of the past two weeks we find the larger
story framing our own little journey.
Both augmenting and subduing the trauma. Making our story of pain smaller and bigger.
Both augmenting and subduing the trauma. Making our story of pain smaller and bigger.
There is something incredibly humbling and even noble about being so utterly incapacitated, so powerless, so out of control, so dependent. We know in the depth of our being, that this is way out of our league. That we are desperately in need for Someone stronger who will walk with us - who can carry us - through the unthinkable, who will help us endure the
unendurable. Someone able to assure our storm-tossed hearts
and minds...
You are not alone. I see you... I know you... I love you...,You are not alone... You... are... not... alone...
You are not alone. I see you... I know you... I love you...,You are not alone... You... are... not... alone...
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you;
And through the rivers, they will not overflow you... Isaiah 43:2a